Something figures. So now there's people who know the complete picture and I don't cause I haven't tried finding out.

Things go wrong when people talk, words change and you just don't know what the truth is. Maybe there isn't even first-hand information. You're confused yourself. You could've said something in the past and meant whatever you said, but you don't right now. People assume you're being two-faced for doing that.

Words strip you of the chance to change, because the past (however untrue it may be) can be dug out in defense of a recent matter. It might seem like an appropriate example but people fail to acknowledge the change in others. In life, there really isn't anything like turning over a new leaf, is there?

We all make the same mistakes. I do, and you do too. So what right do we have to deprive others of that change by being the one to dig out past matters about her and her words about others? She could've acted differently now out of a genuine willingness to make everything better. Don't ruin her chance to improve/correct her relationship with another with the tainted past you heard of.

We ALL make that same mistake. I did, you did. We should just learn to keep our words to ourselves. All of it.